I believe that No Problem is a Rocket Science. But Today's experiance has suggested me to wait and watch before announcing your solution. Try to look for option, discuss with others with open mind about his views on solution, Findout is there any betterway than this? if you wait, watch and have creative feedback from others. I am sure you can get a better solution.
Solving problem is not a big thing!!! Providing best solution with a great learning is a KEY achievement. This is my today's learning form a problem of downloading a spool generated by SAP SCRIPT to a text file.
Darshan Patel. DKCAN
Thursday, February 28
Arguments and How to Be nice at it.
- If you have no Option but to enter into arguments.....
- The rule of thumb to remember is that your own desire to believe something or your own opinion about how great the belief is will not convince anyone else. To do that, you need logic and evidence.
- Being able to argue logically will make you very effective at pointing out the flaws and contradictions in your opponent's objections.
- Never have bad sportsmanship. Learn to accept you also may be wrong.
- Increase your vocabulary some time arguing becomes a hot discussion because of language problem or small vacabulary.
- If all else fails; you can "win" an argument by just proving other person wrong. You don't have to prove yourself right, but since they are wrong this implies you are right. But some time proving some one wrong will cost you more than WINNING!!!
- Keep talking about facts and logic and such. When your opponent gets bored of this argument, likely they'll apologize and say you were right the whole time. Note: This will take a lot of knowledge on the subject and patience. Thank the opposite person a win or lose, it makes him happy.:)
I advise you to, before your speech, practice gargling, anything to help your speech
Saturday, February 23
Saying Sorry & Thank You is Simple.
Refer to a Book The One Minute Apology, By Ken and Forward written by Spencer Johnson. When you make a mistake, Don't delay in expressing your sorry; when you delay your response you compound the problem.
Mistakes are made by every one; this book will help you to set things right. It explains with an example ..How to correct your mistake and make things better.
It's not just a Technique, it's not just a book, It's philosophy to live and take benefit. One can get great benefit from the book if he or she is passing through tough situation.
Tuesday, February 12
When In Trouble... Wait, Watch and Go...
When In Trouble, Do not React.
We all can have a choice. We can choose our response to situations. If we panic. We can surely make things worse.
We can get control of things if we are in control. If we react due to pressure of moment we are going to loose on our choices.
We can WAIT, WATCH and GO like we do on Traffic Signal. Life is like a conjusted road, if we rush there are are high chances we can hit someone and damage our own vehicle.
I am putting this thoughs outof my experiances of life.
We all can have a choice. We can choose our response to situations. If we panic. We can surely make things worse.
We can get control of things if we are in control. If we react due to pressure of moment we are going to loose on our choices.
We can WAIT, WATCH and GO like we do on Traffic Signal. Life is like a conjusted road, if we rush there are are high chances we can hit someone and damage our own vehicle.
I am putting this thoughs outof my experiances of life.
How to Deal with Difficult People?
Dear Reader,
We all get difficult & unreasonable people in life and some time we also become unreasoble and difficult.
How to deal with them is a trick.
We can choose our response while dealing with such people we can choose to
1. Run Away
2. Change Our Attitude
3. Change their Attitude OR
4. Take a Stand.
It depends on situation that we choose to RUN from that person if we can. If we can see that the issue or person is not worth loosing our time on then we can RUN.
If we can not run as issue or person is Improtant then we can introspect and can see is there any need to change my attitude. The person is not difficult but it's my perception then we can choose to change our attitude.
If we can see the person is jsut ignorant and can be changed if we can give him a hint on his unreasonable behaviour then choise 3 is good.
But if we need to deal with the person and can not change him. Then this is the last way. we can decide to do tit for tat.
We all get difficult & unreasonable people in life and some time we also become unreasoble and difficult.
How to deal with them is a trick.
We can choose our response while dealing with such people we can choose to
1. Run Away
2. Change Our Attitude
3. Change their Attitude OR
4. Take a Stand.
It depends on situation that we choose to RUN from that person if we can. If we can see that the issue or person is not worth loosing our time on then we can RUN.
If we can not run as issue or person is Improtant then we can introspect and can see is there any need to change my attitude. The person is not difficult but it's my perception then we can choose to change our attitude.
If we can see the person is jsut ignorant and can be changed if we can give him a hint on his unreasonable behaviour then choise 3 is good.
But if we need to deal with the person and can not change him. Then this is the last way. we can decide to do tit for tat.
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